One week ago I put my profile back up on POF. I wrote from the heart this time. I didn't study it, reassess, change things, try to be funny or anything else. I just wrote down what I thought. The response was incredible. Within 1 minute I was added as a 'favorite' and the messages that came flooding in were a little overwhelming. Sure, I got the 'hi there' texts which I don't often reply to as that suggests I have to make conversation which I also don't think is very fair however I got many actually wanting to make conversation. I was chatting to 3 girls but 1 shone through. Sweet, funny and a little dizzy like me. Italian heritage and described herself as 'fiery and passionate'. Now, as a Gemini that sounds pretty good to me. We have chatted all week and today is the day we first meet.
I have often wondered what being married actually means. Sure, it's nice to have somebody to be with, talk to, share things with and clearly sleep with but REALLY!!! It's not that good after all. It means stress, giving all your money away and predictable nights of planned sex. What I have found since being on this dating site is that there are millions of people out there who are just like me. A bit lonely but understand where I am coming from. Marriage for me? Never again. I'll be with somebody and that right person I will stay faithful too.....just as long as she doesn't ask me to marry her. The life of the singleton's is not that bad you know.
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